Erin and I have just been chatting and she said: 'Hey blog this'.
As always I'm doing as I'm told. But maybe she didn't mean it.
Anyway, she's basically got a gripe as a pregnant woman. And that gripe is that she's become public property. People feel that they can say anything, absolutely anything, to her. They look her up and down and tell her how she looks. Or they tell her she can or can't do things because of her condition (she hates that word). She also hates the fact that her belly has become the focus of conversation. People forget that she used to be able to chat about all sorts before getting pregnant.
The 3 main pregnancy cliches you're probably best avoiding when talking to Erin in the next 4.5 months are:
- 'You should(n't) ... In your condition.' The bit in the middle has ranged from biking to work to bringing a tray of drinks into a room for a meeting.
- 'Oh, are you craving that?' This is if she asks for anything to eat or drink - and it might be a cup of tea in the middle of the morning - it's automatically assumed she's craving.
- 'Oh, you can eat that now because you're eating for two.' Technically she's only supposed to eat an extra 300 calories a day.
Yes, Erin's a little bit Angry Pregnant today.